Internal Happiness + First Flake FR

Hey guys, i just feelike writing. I got my first real flake the other day. I know, first one! The crazy thing was, i had solid txt game, but she never picked up the damn phone! Phone game is always how i get my D2's. By the way, did Shadow find a copy of Get the Girl, by Mehow yet?

How i got into this set was fucking sneaky. At one of my usual spot, and i spot a mixed set a few seats down. One HB8, HB7, and their 3 guy friends. One of the guys leaves to go to the bathroom and i casually stepped out in front of him and make real strong eye contact.

I-Man: Whats happenin man, i know... ive met you before..., you kickass!
Rob(Stepping Stone): Oh yeh, you look familiar too. I work at whatever restaurant.

Blah blah, talked with him for about 1 minute. Got his name, where he works, and where he lives. Importantly he told me that one of the bigger bars in Pittsburgh are going to make a huge patio/deck and he is going to work there. This was all i needed, i pushed him off to the bathroom, and went directly to the set he was just at.

I-Man: Whats happenin guys (had a hand on the shoulder of the 2 other guys) Rob was just tellin me about blah blah blah.

It was funny, i dont even remember what i said, but i phrased it in a way that they didnt even ask me if i knew Rob, they just kinda assumed it because i knew where he worked and his name. Right away i established dominance with the two guys and i was already getting IOI's from HB8. By the time Rob got back from the bathroom, i was locked into the set talking to HB8. He came back with the Biggest WTF look on his face. It was hysterical.

Anyways, i ran solid game on this girl and her friends for about 5 minutes before my PUA friends showed up to drag me out cause she was the only decent set in the whole place. The number was easy enough to grab, she actually made me call her as soon as i got it so she would have mine. My txt game was normal, got her to txt me a few times the same night, and then 2 days later we had some playful txts and i decided to call her. She didnt pickup so i left a message and decided to wait a couple days. 3 days later, she txts me and apologizes for not getting back to me. A solid 4 hours later i initiate txt and she immediately responds. (Unfortunately these txts are long gone, i wish i still had the originals, they were golden, but this is the jist.)

I-Man: So i just got to the gym but i dont really wanna go in. This creepy fat chick keeps following me around! Ugh, so horrible.
HB8: Haha, thats soo funny.
I-Man: Sooo NOT funny! Anyways, im busy. And dont pickup your phone when i call you tomorrow @3, Im a total asshole, and you are a fucking cutie.
HB8: Haha, well i might be pretty tempted to pick up ;)

And she STILL didnt pick up when i called her. If they at least pickup the phone, i can always keep them interested, and get a D2 established on the second phone call. Argh! Oh well. I tried a couple more txts over the next few days but she never reponded.

I-Man: Haha, your so a Flayer, thats awesome...i love it.
and
I-Man: We are soo broken up. But what are we going to do about the cats? Im taking fluffy!

And still no response. Hmm, should i keep trying? I dont really care but damn. What a challenge. Oh well, i blinked in the picture. Maybe that was a forewarning!

Anyways, time for quick innergame time with I-Man.

External Validation is what makes most people happy. I get all this attention and feelings from other people which makes me feel good. When those people go away, I dont feel good. This is a major problem i have had for a long damn time. All my life really. But lately, i have realized, that true happiness comes from within yourself! Not from other people. This is probably going to be my main focus for the rest of this year.

I am sick of feeling like crap when my so called friends dont call me. I used to sit at my house and feel like shit cause my cell phone wouldn't ring all weekend. I would ask myself all these questions and blame things on myself. Well no more, i have finally realized that true happiness comes from within, not from the validation you get from other people. Instead of sitting around and feeling shitty i go to the gym, get shit done, im learning japanese for christ sake! I dont fucking care if no one calls me anymore! I have enough of a life by myself that i dont need other people to make me feel good. I can feel good all by myself!

Anyways, i hate talking about innergame, but I found this really important. And after i had this realization, i started looking at some of my friends and came to a major realization. Most of my friends that i dont like very much, are also people who thrive from external validation. All of my friends that i really love, are internally validated. The correlation was amazing. Anyways, I am going on a D4 with HBRussian this Wednesday and i have all of my schematics out in front of me in order for a well planned F-close. God i hope its a good time of the month :-/

Peace

Club Diesel

I slowly open my eyes and instinctively shut them as to only concentrate on the warmth of my bed. Ugh, another Saturday, the beginning of my work week. Without moving more than 10 inches i reach to grab my phone to see how much time before i have to get up. "Outshined" by Soundgarden starts playing before i even touch the phone. As annoying as that is, all day I felt as if I were 10 seconds ahead of everyone else. And the HB9 pull just proves it.

My cute HB8Partay friend won a happy hour at one of the better clubs in Pittsburgh. I knew that she invited tons of people so i planned on gaming all the other girls in the club. Fortunately, there was only 4 girls and 4 guys in our little partay! This night i was straight Mystery Method.

I had control of the whole fucking 8 set. I was making all the decisions, talking the most, leading everyone. I would purposely put HB9 right next to me and then turn my back on her as i told everyone else a story. Almost every time i did this she would kick my shoes, vying for attention. At first i just ignored her and gave her a little more Body Language so she wouldn't wine to the whole group. After the 5th time she kicked me i stopped talking and slowly turned to her and said, "Can I help you?"

After that i decided it was time for our group to go to the dance floor. After I grabbed HBPartay and HB9 the rest of the group followed. I love being a PUA! Apparently... HB9 does not know how to dance so she was being kinda shy. Actually she said at one point that she does not have a lot of confidence. ....I looked at her again cause my eyes have played tricks on me before... yep, she was still an HB9, WTF?!?..what an oddity, girls this hot are not usually shy, especially on the dance floor, she must be fuckin crazy...great. So now she is HBConservative.

After i yanked her out and got her dancing i did the Hula routine on HBConserv right in front of HBPartay, they both loved it. More dancing more drinking, Vegas Marriage routine, dancing more drinking, little sister disney world routine, more dancing...vibing. By now her BT was through the fuckin roof. I knew it was time for a make out.

At this point she was attempting to grind her ass on me. I turned her around and we were grinding on eachother for a minute. I put my head right next to hers...

I-Man: Ughhh!
HBConserv: What?
I-Man: You smell so Fucking Good!
HBConserv: Aaaaaaah!! (pretty much the same reaction you get when you say the 'word of the day' at Pee Wee's playhouse)
I-Man: You know what?
HBConserv: What?
I-man bites her neck which immediately changed her breathing pattern and then she put both hands on my chest. I-Man proceeds to stare into her eyes with that NLP look.
HBConserv: lskjfsksjfd
I-Man: sshhh! You talk too much. Would you like to kiss me?
HBConserv: YEEES!
I-man tilts his head a little, and gives her the 'come here' finger and we meet in the middle.

I should have broke the kiss first and said, "hey we need to slow down" but i forgot. Also, I kissed her before i left the club. For those who dont know, kissing a girl goodbye is not always a good thing cause it reminds them of all the other AFC guys they've dated. Here is why i did it...

We made out at least 4 times after the first makeout before i realized i had to leave hella soon. Obviously this meant i had to take one giant leap into comfort so she wouldn't flake. My point, these multiple makeouts definitely started as attraction and kinda moved into comfort. We were doing it in different places of the club, around her friends, ya get the idea. So really, i didnt throw much comfort material in there. And of course i had to try TJ's patented flake stomper, touching her nose and telling her how much flakes annoy me during the n-close. It didn't go very smoothly as i had to explain what a flaking is..... oh i love blondes.

I arrive home and settle in bed, once again reach for my phone to set the "Outshined" alarm. Before i touch it i get a txt from HBConserv. "Lame...you shouldnt have left me." Hmmm, Hypnotize by Biggie seems like a much better alarm choice. I-Man I-Man I-Man cant you see? Sometimes your words just hypnotize me... :)

I-Man

Stall for Love

Oh geez. So, ive been doing this PUA thing with plenty of success and no intention of stopping. Its hard though because i technically have a girlfriend. Dont get me wrong, she is 7 hours away at school and i have not been sooo unfaithful... but the thing is, i can see myself marrying this girl. Without a doubt i would be a fool to let this girl slip by me.

On the other hand, i do not want to stop my new PUA lifestyle. It makes me feel great and gives me a great sense of validation and accomplishment. Am i in the game to pick up chicks? No, i am doing it to get good with women and people in general. My goal is not to sleep with every piece of ass that comes my way...im not like that. Why cant i just tell my gf that im doing this? Why cant she accept that i want to better myself! I mean shit.

Well, because i am not trying to bang all across town, my morals are not bothered, but i cannot shake the feeling that if she finds out it will be over. Let me re-iterate. I wanna marry this girl, but not yet. I would not mind being faithful to this girl if she lived with or even close to me. I cannot explain my lifestyle to her because she would not understand. I know what, of course my morals are compromised...why else would i be writing about it? Well, because i was hoping for some solution to pop out of my words. haha, no solutions in the love game.

And i really think she wants to be oblivious to this whole thing, i mean. She must know by now what i do. But then again, i guess PUA's are still semi secret. After all, thats why it is so fun and easy.

Mehow Know how

Wow, my first experience using Mehow's system was great. I even used the open hand gesture to my managers at the office and they seemed more impressed than usual. It does feel strange though, like your about to give them a hug.

Story...
When out with a new AFC whom i just started hanging out with again, i trained him on the basics on the way to Pittsburgh (40min).

The first Mehow set of the night turned out to be THE set of the night. HB7 and HB8 were sitting alone at a table so i did the woohoo opener followed by the appropriate tease. It turns out that it was HB8 birthday and was waiting for the rest of her sorority sisters :) . After vibing i went into old nickelodeon shows routine and then went and got my AFC wing to see if he could vibe with these girls. I should have brought the girls to him...doh!! Since he works on cars i DHVed him, "He is an awesome car enthusiast...have you ever seen pimp my ride? AFC here is just like those guys except hella funnier" Anyway, HB7 was into him so i concentrated on B-day girl, which by the way when it was name time, i told her i would just call her the "b-day brat" and i didn't want to know her real name...hehe.

Long story short, B-day brat got some fucked phone call and went in the bathroom to cry. While she was in there i opened HB7 whom came in alone, did the Disney routine as well as the "what did you wanna be when you were 7" and the "middle school fat chick persona". Last was the ADD test which she loved! HB7 and AFC came by and we merged sets which turned out that both HB7's knew each other and were there for the b-day party. After mingling with a bunch more girls when i should have been concentrating on my target, it started to get late and i had to go, but i wasn't gonna go anywhere without at least a n-close.

Told my target we were about to go and teased her about showing b-day brat a good time and to not be so dull. I should have pumped up her state more before doing the number routine.

Me: "Do you believe in fate?"
HB7: "Yeah!"
Me: "Awesome, your just like me. I tell you what, tell me your number, if i remember it i will call you and we can head down to Disney land and start trouble like we talked about. However, if i don't remember it, then it wasn't meant to be. "

At this point her friend interrupted because she wanted to know what i said. Like a dumbass i let the interruption happen, i should have stopped it with "heey, shows over here!" Anyways, after the interrupt i decided to let this set go...

Me: "Ya know what, your time is up. It was wonderful meeting you all and show B-day brat a fuckin awesome time"

Gave some hugs and left. I have a damn good feeling the HB7 was pissed i left without getting her number. Oh well, i don't need it anyways. About to leave for a quick sarge lesson with another AFC and then to Pittsburgh tomorrow for an awesome fun filled night.

First experience with AGOG's

I have never seen this issue addressed in any posts and want to get some opinions so we can eventually learn from AGOG's (alpha gays). Ok, we all know that women love gay guys because they usually have high energy and can act very sexual towards women without being threatening.

Story...
My first HBasian turned out to be a dance major that had just graduated. After the initial PU and number close at a bar, I had one week with her before she left town. Long story short, the day2 salsa dancing lessons and the hour long question game we played on her couch closed the deal. (why they didn't teach her salsa at her dance school i don't know, thats college i guess) Then she left town and went back home.

A month later she comes back for an audition and wants me to go out to dinner/bar with her and 2 of her girlfriends. Her friends loved me, but i didn't use enough kino on HBasian and somehow felt like i was in the friend zone. That was the most important lesson i learned, even after an f-close, you still need to start from scratch the next time you see them. After the bar i still had high hopes of another night in her old bed. We went to a party named "Crasia" at her old college. She is a crazy Asian! Anyways, the party was filled with gay guys and straight girls. Seems like a cake walk right?? Wrong!

2 Problems with this party:
1. I didn't know anyone except HBasain, and she was occupied with her friends she hadn't seen in a month. Their conversation focused on memories and people i didn't know.

2. After i decided to start sarging her friends, the gay guys came and claimed all the attention with their elevated energy and erotic dancing(mostly with the girls).

No matter how hard I tried to win over HBasain and the other girls, they could not take their attention away from the gay guys. I could only try so hard without stepping completely out of my persona and acting like i was gay myself. After an hour of trying i gave up and went home cause they were not done partying and i had to get up at 6am. Damn.

The only solution i can think of is to game the gay guys instead of the girls. Once you have all of their attention...the chicks will then focus on you instead. How to do this...AMOG an AGOG... while avoiding all the potential problems associated with gaming a gay guy... i have no idea. Any opinions would be appreciated.

I-Man

From Rasta to Masta

asdf, the most common thing to type when you don't know what to say. Basically, this is a great metaphor for life. I looked at this blank area and didn't know how to start. asdf got me started and now look, im rollin and even made a point.

Life is this. Move, and you will gain momentum. If you don't make the first move...your sterile.